Thursday, July 10, 2014

Today's TED Talk: Muslim vs. Muslim Terrorism

Karima Bennoue is a law professor at the University of California - Davis School of Law and the author of Your Fatwa Does Not Apply Here: Untold Stories from the Fight Against Muslim Fundamentalism.

In this TED Talk, she speaks about the devastating impact of fundamentalist violence on people who don't share their vision of Islam.  She makes the point that fundamentalisms are dangerous, not just certain ones, and celebrates the courage of those who refuse to be repressed. I think her own successes should also be celebrated.

Tuesday, July 8, 2014

Well Organized Protection of Pedophiles isn't just a Catholic Thing

I have run across random references to the Independent Fundamentalist Baptist Church movement, but the word "independent" seems to give the stories of abuse in these churches some kind of pass for the other churches. But people who have been following them have revealed that there is indeed an organization of sorts underpinning their abusive practices, and that the abusive pastors, members and churches are not isolated incidences.

This story called A Christianity to Make Satan Proud at a Christian Patheos blog gives a chilling account of the power that men of this movement wield over women and children, and how they manage to avoid the long arm of the law.

In this post, a letter from a young woman who was sexually abused by her father for years, shows that denial and victim-blaming is endemic in this movement. Here's just one part of her story:

When I started to try to tell the pastor—my pastor—and his wife that my father had been molesting me since I was three or four years old, he stopped me. “Don’t tell me,” he said. “I don’t want to hear it! If you tell me, then I am required to call the police and report this. You don’t want your daddy going to prison over a misunderstanding, do you?”

Misunderstanding????   Children are indoctrinated into believing they can only trust insiders of their church, that all outsiders including others who claim to be Christians, are not to be trusted, and then what happens when they confide in their authority figures?

These horrible people make up about 2.5% of the American population.  There are probably some near you.

Notable points in her story:
  • Her pedophile father was moved to a different church in another state. Hmmm are they sure they're not Catholic?
     
  • Her grandparents were in collusion with her father and the church, sending her to a re-education camp (not the infamous Hepzibah House but it sounds similar) after she came forward with accusations of sex abuse.
     
  • She was instructed to visit her step-father in prison (there for other offenses) to tell him she forgives him.
     
  • She followed her family tradition of attending Bob Jones University, where denial and victim-blaming were just as institutionalized as in her local church.  BJU is the wellspring of the movement and the university that grants "degrees" to the Bible Church pastors perpetrating abuses around the country.
     
  • Her PTSD nightmares were so bad her dormmates' sleep was disturbed, and yet her accusations were dismissed. (How many people are dishonest in their dreams?)
     
    This isn't an isolated instance at all, just an incredibly well-coordinated suppression of the truth. The TV show "20/20" covered an equally egregious instance, in which a 15-year-old girl was sexually abused by her father and raped by a man in her church.  She was forced to confess in front of the entire congregation, then sent away to have the rapist's baby.... which the church forced her to give up for adoption to a "Christian" family.  They interviewed the pastor, who now works in Indianapolis, and he stuck to his guns.  Incredibly, after the 20/20 episode the creep kept his job! 

  • (God, however, was extremely pissed off and used a bus wreck to kill the pastor's son, daughter-in-law, and her fetus.  Note what they say on their site: "On Saturday, July 27, 2013 at around 4:30 p.m., the Lord allowed a bus accident to take Pastor Chad and Courtney Phelps and their unborn baby (see below) and Mrs. Tonya Weindorf (see below) home to enjoy Him in His presence forever")


    More sites:
    Baptist Deception: articles on the theological problems and abuses of the movement
    Bruce Gensner, a former IFB pastor, on the rise and (hopefully) decline of the IFB movement and on its cultish attributes.
     
    Sheldon, of the Ramblings of Sheldon blog, on the IFB as a guest blogger.  He also has a series on Exposing the IFB.
     
     

    Sunday, June 22, 2014

    June 21 Link Round-up

    Happy Solstice!  Time Magazine offers a run-down of celebrations around the world.

    Scientology apostate and film director Paul Haggis discusses bullying of ex-members by Scientologists.

    Spinia bifida could be prevented if folic acid was added to corn meal, but it would cost $1 million to test first. Really? Nobody can afford that???

    The BBC tells the story of the man who writes Leaving Fundamentalism blog.  He is a former student at a fundamentalist school in the U.K.  Now that muslims are running their own creationist schools, the U.K. is examining Christian "faith schools" that flew under the radar until recently.  Now that creationism is banned in U.K. publicly-funded schools, will "faith schools" be more popular?

    Meanwhile, Buddhist fundamentalism is on the rise, with violent consequences.

    Asian elephants comfort each other and show empathy.  Without having Ten Commandments to follow!

    Check out a new atheist blog by a guy named Josh, who grew up fundamentalist.


    Video of the week:
    Dick Cheney and his alter ego:


    Saturday, June 14, 2014

    June 14 Link Round-up

    A Missouri school pays the legal fees for the American Humanist Association after giving special treatment to a religious school group.

    The Executive Director of the American Humanist Association takes on the rhetorical tactic of Hobby Lobby's owners. No, religious "liberty" doesn't include freedom to discriminate.

    Atheism is on the rise in Saudi Arabia.   The downside of an official government religion -- disillusionment with the government leads to disillusionment with the government's religion.

    The jihadist group, ISIS, that has taken over Syria and threatens Iraq is so violent even al-Qaeda has distanced itself from them.

    This is an old article but new to me. I knew the Amish weren't the quaint harmless people we presumed them to be but they are worse than I'd imagined.

    Video of the week:

    The Amazing Atheist takes on Josh Feuerstein's video "disproving" evolution:

    Thursday, June 12, 2014

    Are Atheists "Offended" by Prayer?

    Recently I have encountered online comments from believers who ask why their god talk "offends" atheists. It's an accusation more than a genuine question, of course. The word is code for a message that we are too sensitive and we should just suck it up. After all, they're in charge and we have to live in their world. That's just how it is and we should get used to it.

    The online Webster's dictionary defines 'offend' this way:
    • to cause (a person or group) to feel hurt, angry, or upset by something said or done
    • to be unpleasant to (someone or something)
    • to do wrong : to be against what people believe is acceptable or proper
    So... feeling offended could mean we're just oversensitive sissypants, or it could mean feeling as if we've been wronged. But the definition is clear - the onus is on the person who offends. But... but.... but... they're such good people, doing what they believe to be good, what wrong could they be committing? It must surely all be in our heads.  Blaming the offended party obviates any need for self-reflection.

    Further down the page, Merriam-Webster says this: "offend need not imply an intentional hurting but it may indicate merely a violation of the victim's sense of what is proper or fitting."

    Well there ya go. But... if people get offended for a good reason, that's still the fault of the offender, not the offended. If I don't realize that the N-word is offensive, and I use it and someone gets offended, it's not their fault. It may be the fault of my ignorance (the first time) but I wouldn't blame the other person. I would apologize for saying the offensive thing, i.e., apologize for doing something wrong and promise not to do it again. Blaming the "victim" is the kind of thing a sociopath does, not a normal, decent person.

    Most of the time when I encounter this term it's in the context of government endorsement of religion. (Naturally, because I don't give a hoot about someone's religious expression any other time) When I e-mailed the principal of Lebanon High School in Missouri to admonish him for sneaking prayer into his graduation speech, he replied that he was sorry if I was offended. His public nonpology says much the same thing:

    “I sincerely apologize if any comments made in my speech offended anyone in the audience and our community, especially any of our students, and will strive to not let this happen again. Our district endeavors to fully comply with the laws and Constitution of the United States, and to provide quality education to all of our students. I wish each and everyone of the 332 fine young men and women who graduated that night the best in all of their endeavors.”
    -Lebanon High School Principal Kevin Lowery
    For additional information Contact:
    Jacy Tilton
    Director of Communications, Lebanon R-3 School District
    417-225-8094
    (copied from Jerry Coyne's Why Evolution is True site)

    I doubt that these words are all his. The district probably has a legal advisor, but still ... the comments offended people, not Lowery. By blaming the comments and not himself, he's still taking a step away from his guilt. It's like saying "I'm sorry if my bullet entered your body and caused an injury. I won't let bullets do that again." Who pulled the trigger, Mr. Lowery? Words don't just fly out of your mouth on their own without your brain putting them there.

    Recently I've been told that I'm unnecessarily "offended" in a debate with a Jewish Facebook friend.  I posted a link to a poll asking whether "Under God" should remain in the pledge."  She said that when she was in school (decades ago) she and a Jewish friend just stayed silent for those words so why can't atheists?

    I think she's missing the point.  Well, there are many points that she's missing, and she sounds like victims of hazing who justify hazing the next group of fraternity pledges.  There's some kind of victimology there, but I'll save that for later.  For one thing, no child should have to make that decision!  In protestant Christianity and Judaism, a child isn't of age to commit to a belief system until just before puberty.  Our age of consent for almost every adult act is older than elementary school age.  If a child isn't of age to enter into a contract, buy a pack of cigarettes, drive a car, or have sex, we shouldn't expect them to make a consent decision regarding religious expression.   Another problem I have with this is that it asks a child to opt out.  It's a well known psychological/sociological principal that opting in results in less compliance than opting in, for example in donor registration on driver's licenses (the "default" effect).  This results in god-talk being normalized, and silence being seen by the majority as abnormal or exceptional.  In the case of children and the pledge, we are asking children to obey their teachers at all time ... except when they disagree with their teacher about God. Is that realistic? Again, the child is getting the blame for putting up with something illegal, not the teacher who enforces it.

    The way we know that this is true is that believers don't like it when they are the ones who must opt in or out.  My Jewish friend asked me why atheists can't just opt out like she did, because opting in is so difficult.  It's as if the idea of not making children decide on their belief system at the beginning of the day for twelve years just doesn't exist for her. If the "normal" pledge has no god reference it's not in any way damaging... or should I say offending a believer. They don't say god all day long in every other activity in school. Not doing it during their morning flag recitation won't hurt them any more than not doing it while learning fractions.

    But my real complaint isn't that I'm personally "offended" or hurt if some child somewhere is forced to pray against his/her will, or if a principal prays at a graduation ceremony.  I'm not personally affected at all so my own feelings can't be hurt. I'm offended as an American that such things are going on in a country that supposedly did away with them. Expecting a 6-year-old or a 16-year-old to go along with a religious message in a school environment where they are expected to be obedient to authority is coercion, not free expression.

    Now, let's look at the other definition of offend:  to break the law.  Criminals are called offenders.  A school that forces kids to say "under God" and a principal who prays at a public school event is breaking the law of the land: the First Amendment of the Constitution and subsequent related case law.

    When someone commits an offense against a law, they are committing an offense against all the people, as represented by the government.  As one of those people,  I'm entitled to shout "HEY!  You're breaking the law!"  In criminal court, the prosecution represents "the people," even if there's a specific victim. Unfortunately, in civil court only aggrieved parties are able to file lawsuits against these malefactors.   I think crimes against the Constitution offend against everybody in the U.S., so anybody should be able to file suit, and Principal Lowery should be put on trial and jailed.

    Why do outsiders like Jerry Coyne, the Freedom From Religion Foundation and myself (to a much lesser degree of course) take "offense" at offenses against the Constitution?  In my case, it's because of the "Broken Window" effect in sociology.  When that first broken window doesn't get fixed, people think it's okay to break more windows.  They think, Nobody obviously cares about windows in this neighborhood, do they? It's a slippery slope, but not a fallacious slippery slope. In Law, it's called "precedent," and in principle it's called "tradition."

    God on our money, in the pledge, or in a public school graduation speech is a broken window in the one place on Earth that made a solemn promise not to let broken windows happen.  It was a founding principal of our government not to let get entangled with religion, and that principal needs to be restored.

    Saturday, June 7, 2014

    June 7 Link Round-up

    Ahhh the good old days, when girls got pregnant then moved into the "home" with their bastard kids.... and then died and got buried in the septic tank.  The Friendly Atheist has been following the sordid past of Irish Catholicism.

    "Something Awful" forum was the source for the myth that led two twelve-year-old girls to attempt to murder a friend.  They believed the mythical creature, invented in 2009, was real.  And yet nobody can believe that Paul made up the Christ story 20 years after the supposed events?  Uhhh, yep, myths can be invented.

    Fundamentalism is harming Christianity.  Christians with brains are embarrassed by this version of religion.  And everyone else is outraged.

    Vultures seen on Washington, D.C.'s infamous K Street, where lobbyists have their offices.  Are they there to feed on the lobbyists, or are they just visiting their brethren?

    In the wake of the UCSB shooting, Arthur Chu's essay in The Daily Beast sets nerd-guys straight on the error of the video game/ Hollywood narrative of earning female attention (from the hot chick, naturally) through hard work and just trying harder.  Essential quotation:  "other people’s bodies and other people’s love are not something that can be taken nor even something that can be earned—they can be given freely, by choice, or not."

    Jerry Coyne and the FFRF take on a high school principal who used his bully pulpit to talk about God in a graduation speech.  This has been going on for years but this year someone uploaded it to youtube.   Latest post hereSome students in the audience were non-believers, though.  Naturally, being a Christian bully, the principal was able to delude himself that he truly represented the community.  If everyone else has been silenced, who's to set him straight?  The court system perhaps?  Search "Lebanon" on Coyne's website for more quotes and continued drama.  Much like Muncie of a year ago, the ignorant citizens of Lebanon are getting a belated education in civil law.  Note the abysmal test results in government for the school.  Perhaps that's the reason for community support - they were victims of his dishonest teaching method.

    A new youtube vlogger posted Atheism 101.  Show your support and give her an upvote for a well-thought out presentation.

    Viral article link about atheism (at least on my FB feed) talks about newer atheism.  The only bit I really related to is that what we have in common is that we embrace reality.  The article has lingo that I would have to be under 30 to understand but it was an interesting read.

    Video of the week:  Youth "Pastor Nate" tries to be funny.   Beating up women with a baseball bat?  Ummm no, not funny: